tina love,
just now I realized that actually I did not welcome you at this forum.... oh dear I completely missed this... I do apologize

So, I have to do it now. A belated but warm welcome from me love !!! Have a lovely time here with all of us and enjoy the company, the exchange of info and opinios and stay with us !!!
Concerning your way of approaching things:
but the most important thing is to do not go grazy about that.....have biiiiiiiig distance because it can end like this.....deep pain and depress, and so on....
cuz as I know myself, if I wouldn' take it like this, it could be very hurtful for me...
You and perhaps some others, too might be surprised

because I'm very open, personal and emotional in my mails here and I guess that I'm one of Danya's most passionate admirers BUT I AGREE SOOOOOO MUCH WITH YOU !!!!!!
You're absolutely right with all you say and you have a very healthy attitude on this matter. To be honest I really and deeply admire Danya with all my heart and soul and sometimes I like letting my imagination run wild about him. I do try very hard though not to say anything that might be misunderstood as offensive or insulting and I hope that I succeed in it....
So, inspite of indulging in passion and adoration for him, I always say to myself that inside me I should keep a distance and I never forget that he's married and quite obviously extremely happily married. Moreover, as I said in the long mail before, I feel it to be a blessing that I live so far away from Moscow because for me personally the great geographical distance is a very good way of staying with both my feet firmly on the ground of reality.
Among the Greek girls we're talking about trying to travel to Moscow next year and I feel fine, happy and comfortable about it because if we're going to meet Danya personally it's going to be just this one visit and then we're going to travel back home again to our own reality and life and so I know that I will be able to handle this perfectly.
For me Danya

is the perfect

dream man

in every way

but I am not as crazy to fool myself by dreaming about making him mine one day. THAT WILL NEVER HAPPEN and I can live with this fact though I must confess that it hurts a little

but I hope that none of you will blame me for this

.
In the end the only thing I really want and wish is for all of us here at this forum to find a person with whom one can live the love and happiness everyone of us surely dreams of. To be with somebody who has the human and gentleman qualities of Danya and who would give his love and warmth as generously as Danya does because I believe that we're worth it for many very good reasons !!!!

I AM ROMANTIC YOU KNOW, READY TO MAKE ANY KIND OF FOOLISHNESS FOR LOVE. (DANYA)
A WOMAN KNOWS THE FACE OF THE MAN SHE LOVES AS A SAILOR KNOWS THE OPEN SEA (HONORE DE BALZAC)
THE ARTIST VOCATION IS TO SEND LIGHT INTO THE HUMAN HEART (GEORGE SAND)